‘Men
should come with an instruction manual; it is so hard to understand them’
So
true, but in both the cases, as it is difficult for women to understand men,
same way it is difficult for men to understand women, because we fail to
realize the basic difference between both the gender.
Just
like men are practical and logical, women are emotional. Men solve their issues
by not talking, and women by only talking, it is their need for sharing. Men do
not like giving instructions, whereas women like being accompanied in majority
of tasks.
So
turning to my side of the story:
Anjali dated six men and rejected all of them, still finds it difficult to find Mr. Right. As they say "Marriages are made in Heaven" this statement proves so true here. No matter how many people you meet and reject, you find your compatible person only one. You marry only one person. Here are some aspects I cannot ignore in a person.
1.)
Love, care and support: Love is such a tonic, without which human
beings can’t survive. It’s the basic need of girl to be loved, to be cared. No
matter how much it is in your heart, it should show. Care in its various forms
like, caring for choices, tastes, likes, dislikes, doing things without being
told, giving surprises. No matter how much both of us fight, these things,
conceal them and makes the relationship going. Support for the ambitions, goals
and dreams I want to achieve in life.
2.)
Respecting my space and individuality: Respecting
my space, letting me do things I have been doing, without which I am incomplete.
He should have his say, but no interference or domination. That intellectual
capacity and wavelength he should possess.
3.)
Noticing and complimenting: Noticing small
things and complimenting in front of everyone, very important. Compliment
encourages you to reciprocate the same amount or even more love to the person.
Taking things for granted, simply to keep up his male ego is not my cup of tea,
then and there appreciating things is very important.
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