Why are kids early on maturity ???

We hear many people whine about kids not listening to them for studies, not taking up good lessons, but have we introspected enough?

Why do kids behave in such a fashion?

Why are they mannerless?

Have we found the root cause of it?

Kids are innocent (less aware of things than you) then why complain kids?

Very true, it’s not the kids who are at fault, but parents.

Because they get their colas and burgers very easily, they don’t listen to you. In earlier days, we had to pay the price of seeing Chitrahaar on Sunday, by doing homework for the whole week. Our pleasures were priced. But now days, parents themselves make junk too easily available for them.

When SSC was the best syllabus, but now a days, whether a kid is capable or not, he has no choice, but to go to 8 hours school of CBSE/ICSE syllabus. Where education was once, to give a way of living, now a days it is more of fashion and status quo for parents.

Looking at other side of story, I totally agree that SSC schools have degraded their quality by overcrowded classrooms (teaching 80-90 students in a class), but we are snatching away the most memorable days of life- a carefree childhood.

We want kids to behave as kids of parent’s era, in fast developing and junk atmosphere.

Dear parents, when you have also changed, modified yourselves according to changing times, how can you expect kids to behave like in the past. Very contradictory.

We are cutting trees like anything to park our cars, but we want kids to plant a tree and play outside with friends. Where on one hand, they are scoulded by neighbours for broken window pane or car parking or fight amongst them due to ego - centric kids.

Where does this come from, ego in such small kids?

Why are they so mature?

Why do they feel insulted listening to parents or elders?

The reason is grownups, we are bringing up them in that way. They are taught whom to play with, and whom to skip. They are even taught to lie on phone for their parent’s bosses or boring aunty in neighbourhood.

We cannot ignore the fact, that healthy mind leads to healthy body and healthy body leads to happy life. We deliver on basis of what we intake. Good thoughts and good deeds give us a healthy way of life.

Not to forget, the distractions of modern times, TV, Internet, Mobile phones are a big disease to deal with. We have crumbled then natural process of nature and God, and believe we can control everything from our fate to everything, but we are overlooking the other side of the coin. The recent case of Uttarakhand is an example of this.

The food that is supplied to us is so hybrid, reason being feeding the large population. What goodness is left for new age kids and above that we introduce to them new restaurant and a movie every weekend that leaves them less serious about studies.